To the parents who wonder about what their kids go thru:
Dan Bern, singer-songwriter, wrote in one of his songs:

"Talk to your kids
play with your kids
Tell them your dreams and your disappointments . . .
Tell your kids the truth
Best you can tell it
No use in telling lies
Your kids will always smell it."
-- Kid's Prayer

To all of you who have come to me with your pain. I send you hugs filled with giant bowls of laughter and love. You are beautiful!!!